Golly! Summer is at long last here
and school is out for an entire more than two months. No more books and
rucksacks, no more tests and pressures… .its opportunity to unwind and
appreciate!
Most likely, you buckled down during
the year and you merit a break. Doubtlessly, you need to loosen up and have a
good time. That matter is justifiable. Islam positively takes into
consideration rest after difficult work yet under specific guidelines. Hanzalah
container Aamir once whined to the Prophet (pbuh) that a portion of his time is
blended with playing with his kids and family. The Prophet (pbuh) responded to
him,
"Be that as it may, there ought
to be a period for this and a period for genuine deeds." (Al-Bukhaaree and
Muslim)
Be that as it may, the inquiry is…
.how much would it be a good idea for you to go in spending your late spring
excursion? What is the quintessence of excursion?
Does it mean simple hobby, going to
gatherings, and spending time with your companions without heading or reason?
Does it mean wasting time, sitting
away the hours? Or then again watching satellite stations and playing unending
computer games? Or then again allowing the look to meander free?
Furthermore, what are a portion of
the positive things wherein this mid year can be spent?
These are questions that each
cognizant Muslim who is worried about his available energy, his Aakhirah and
the government assistance of the adolescent ought to ask himself.
Lower your look
Since summer is here and 'they take
everything off', what are you going to do? Is it true that you will allow your
look to meander aimlessly, taking a gander at everything without exception the
eyes can view? Or on the other hand would you say you will submit to the order
of the Lord of the universes and lower your look and procure Jannah all things
considered?
"Advise the accepting men to
bring down their look (from taking a gander at prohibited things), and secure
their reproductive organs (from illicit sexual demonstrations). That is cleaner
for them. Verily, Allaah is All-Aware of what they do.
What's more, advise the accepting
ladies to bring down their look (from taking a gander at prohibited things),
and secure their reproductive organs (from unlawful sexual demonstrations) and
not to flaunt their decoration with the exception of just that which is evident…
." (An-Nur: 30-31),
Try not to go to the sea shore or
different places, for example, public pools all at once you know when it will
be hard for you to bring down your look. Possibly you can go there around
evening time. Or on the other hand perhaps you don't need to go there by any
means. All things considered, host a pool get-together at one of your
companions house (no blending of sexual orientations, obviously!)
Will you remain up the entire
evening?
Is it accurate to say that you will
keep awake until late around evening time and waste it out of gear talk,
watching motion pictures or TV? (Furthermore, coincidentally, not a lot of
shows that are on at that hour can be called 'halaal')
Did you realize that the Prophet
disdained keeping awake after Ishaa petition except if it's anything but a
substantial explanation?
The Prophet (pbuh) said:
"Keeping awake until late is
tiring and troublesome." (Daarimi, Tabaraani).
Also, when Aa'ishah (RA) heard 'Urwah
talking after the 'Ishaa' petition she commented: "What is this discussion
into the evening? I have never seen the Prophet (pbuh) dozing before this
petition or talking after it. He was either imploring and acquiring (award) or
resting and saved (from evil)" (Abdur-Razzaaq).
Is it true that you are resting the
majority of your day?
Allaah has made the night for us to
rest and the day to convey about our daily routines and procure our
experiencing.
"What's more, out of His
kindness He made for you the evening and day that you may rest in that and [by
day] look for from His abundance and [that] maybe you will be
appreciative." (Al-Qasas: 73).
By keeping awake until late around
evening time, not exclusively does that imperil our Fajr petition, yet we will
in general rest until quite a bit later and we turn the normal request of
things set by Allaah topsy turvy. We additionally lose the 'barakah' presently.
The Prophet (pbuh) said,
" Rise right on time to make
money and do your issues, for it achieves gift and achievement."
[at-Tabarani]
Fatima, the Prophet's little girl,
said that when he saw her actually lying in bed one morning, he advised her,
"My girl, get up and witness
your Lord's abundance, and don't be among the unconcerned; Allah disperses day
by day bread between the break of first light and dawn." [al-Baihaqi]
Is it accurate to say that you are
going to 'kill time'?
Concerning killing time, since when
is 'time' an adversary that you ought to endeavor to kill?!!
Time is your breath… .your lifetime
and the snapshots of your life which you could load up with thousands and
millions of hasanaat. It is sufficient for you to say Subhaan Allaah wa bi
hamdihi (Glory and applause be to Allaah) once, and a palm tree will be planted
for you in Jannah. So what number of nurseries have you planted? What's more,
what number of hasanaat have you lost?
The Prophet (pbuh) said:
"Capitalize on five things
before five others come: your life before your passing, your wellbeing before
your affliction, your extra time before your work, your childhood before your
advanced age and your abundance before your neediness." (al-Haakim-Saheeh
).
Keep in mind, you should represent
your time before Allaah
Try not to burn through your time
standing around in the shopping centers, playing computer games or sitting at
the PC for quite a long time.
Recollect that these hours gone won't
ever returned. What's more, we should give record of this time lost when we as
a whole substitute front of Allaah, the Lord of the Worlds.
The Prophet (pbuh) said,
"The feet of the child of Adam
will not continue forward the Day of Resurrection until he is requested from
four things: His life regarding how he spent it, his childhood as how he
utilized it, his insight concerning how he managed it and his abundance with
respect to where he got and how he spent it." (At-Tirmidhee-Saheeh)
You can't be sluggish
It is safe to say that you will end
up being a habitually lazy person, sitting in front of the TV or lazing around
for the remainder of the mid year? Did you realize that apathy is something the
Prophet (pbuh) used to look for asylum with Allaah from in his du'aa's?
"My Lord, I look for asylum in
You from apathy and infirmity." (al-Tirmidhi–saheeh by al-Albaani)
Hello, WHO are your 'companions' in
any case? How are your social occasions?
Ensure you have great organization.
Investigate your companions and ask yourself, what sort of companions do I
have? Will any of them enter my grave with me? Do they urge me to do great or
do they get me far from the recognition of the Almighty? Which of them will act
the hero on the Day of Judgment?
"Companions on that Day will be
enemies; to each other aside from Al-Muttaqoon (the pious)"[al-Zukhruf
43:67]
When you get along with your
companions, what do you do? What do you discuss?
The Prophet (pbuh) said,
"Any individuals who sit in a
get-together during which they don't make reference to the name of Allaah nor
magnify the notice of His Prophet will think twice about it, then, at that
point it is dependent upon Allaah to rebuff them for it or excuse them."
(Ahmad).
Some certain things you can do
Accomplish something positive this
mid year and make an honest effort to use your time carefully.
The Prophet (pbuh) said,
"I do hate to see a man failing
to help this world or the Hereafter.." [at-Tabaraani]
1. Orchestrate your needs
3. Since you have time, make a point
to go to the masjid five times each day and supplicate in Jama'ah.
4. Rest early and rise and shine
right on time, for early hours consistently yield incredible gifts.
5. Keep to companions who are noble,
those that can help you in great and keep you from abhorrent and the other way
around.
6.Spend quality time with guardians,
siblings and sisters and family.
7. Do a ton of "Istighfaar"
as it makes the ways for goodness and makes troublesome matters simple.
8. Get some down time day by day to
discuss and retain the Qur'an and Hadiths.
9. Go to workshops and different
classes of Islaamic information.
10. Utilize your energies inside the
constraints of what Islaam grants.
11. Be careful with the stunts of the
Shaytaan, to remove you from recollecting Allaah.
Presently, don't misunderstand me
I'm NOT SAYING that you ought not
have a ball or have the opportunity to unwind and have a great time.
Definitely! Yet, DO ensure that these
methods are inside the cutoff points set by Allaah, and that you DO require
some investment out for positives also, rather than discarding the entire of
your late spring excursions in things that wont matter when we stand one day
before Allaah.
Also, recollect the hadith of the
Prophet (pbuh) when he said,
"Everything other than recalling
Allah is (considered) inefficient play aside from four: a man going along with
his better half, a man preparing his pony, a man strolling between targets
(learning bows and arrows), and man picking up swimming,"
(An-Nasaa'i–confirmed by Al-Albaani)
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